
MEET THE TEAM
Behind the Unmasked Man
ALEXANDER
Alexander Cottle is the Founder of The Unmasked Man - an embodied men’s facilitator, coach, and spiritual teacher devoted to guiding men home to their truth.
Over eleven years ago, a TIA stroke shattered the trajectory of his life and opened the doorway to a deeper calling. What followed was a decade of study and self-enquiry through Eastern philosophy, counselling, yoga, and meditation - a journey that transformed his understanding of healing, leadership, and what it means to be a man.
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Alexander is recognised for his fierce and compassionate work in somatic shadow work, helping men meet their pain, integrate their hidden parts, and transform their wounds into wisdom. He holds a rare gift - translating profound spiritual and psychological principles into grounded, relatable language that men can embody in their daily life.
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His mission extends far beyond personal transformation. Alexander is devoted to cultivating leaders - men who take the gold they uncover within and bring it back to their families, communities, and the world.
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Through The Unmasked Man, he leads powerful retreats, trainings, and initiations throughout the UK and the world, awakening men to their purpose, power, and legacy - and to the love that has always been within them.
Alexander Cottle
FOUNDER, COACH & LEAD FACILITATOR

the unmasked man pledge
We strip away the layers, breath by breath,
The armour, the story, the fear of death.
Beneath it all, the pulse remains -
A man reborn through love and pain.
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No longer bound by silence or disguise,
He stands before the world - awake, alive.
The Unmasked Man — not perfect, but real,
A leader who dares to break and feel.
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He honours the earth, the wind, the flame,
The water that whispers his sacred name.
He walks with courage, soft yet strong,
A brother among brothers, where all belong.
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He leads not through power, but presence and grace,
Through open eyes and an unguarded face.
He bows to the feminine, to truth, to the land,
To the light that grows in every man’s hand.
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Together we rise, no longer apart,
A circle of Kings with awakened hearts.
And in our rising, we finally see -
The Unmasked Man was always me.














