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The Unmasked Man

LEVEL 1: BOY TO KING


DISCOVER THE MASCULINE ARCHETYPES

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Upcoming dates

26th Feb - 1st March 2026, Dorset

The energy of the King sits within all men. It is vibrant, powerful and fully connected to life. The healthy integrated archetype of the King allows us to move with the flow of life, guided by a purpose that nourishes the deepest parts of ourselves. 

 

Through the complex journey of life this energy can be lost beneath pain, trauma, addiction, fear and a feeling of not being good enough. Whilst it may be lost, it is NOT gone. 

 

This retreat has been intricately designed to facilitate the reclaiming of the King energy within, so that you can create the life that you want; the life that you deserve. 

 

Standing as a radiant man in his power will bring you the relationships you want with friends, partners, colleagues and complete strangers. Everyone will feel the newly-found truth that emanates from you. 

MEN'S RETREAT LEVEL 1 - BOY TO KING

FOUR DAYS, FOUR ARCHETYPES

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FACILITATOR TRAINING call schedule like maddymoon on website? update schedule and dates throughout clarity – 16 weekly for the first 8? check schedule. zoom calls over the 8 moths and 2 additional 3 day in person trainings

TESTIMONIALS

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JAMIE

"A life changing experience, one that is priceless! I feel more connected to myself and my loved ones. I feel like a better partner, friend and son. Therefore, I believe those who are close to me have also benefited from the transformational experience these men bestode upon me. I an truly grateful, and also inspired to better myself and help others. I highly recommend this to experience and I look forward to level 2!"

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JESSIE LITTLE

"If you’re reading this it’s because you’re thinking about whether to book this, and from the bottom of my heart I want to tell you to do it. The money I spent over 10 or so years in therapy dwarfs the money you spend on this single weekend, and it will drastically help you see yourself, your life and your choices in a new way."

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JAMES RADFORD

"Absolutely transforming! It honestly improved my life in every single way. I will never forget the experience and will be coming back for more! I had reservations before I arrived and all of that was squashed very soon.... This works and can work for all men! If you are having issues with your partner, family, friends or colleagues, this work can help you find the courage to look inside yourself and help realise where and what needs to be done, your loved ones will feel this too!

Each day we will explore one of the four masculine archetypes - Lover, Warrior, Magician and King - including their opposing shadows and how they can influence our lives. 

 

Sharing circles will allow us to drop deeper into a place of authenticity; finding that giving words to what we are feeling, and being heard by other men, can be transformational.

 

We will lead easy-to-follow movement and meditation sessions inspired by yogic traditions, allowing you to shift energy and connect more deeply with your body.

 

We will hold emotional release workshops, providing an opportunity, if you wish, to let go of anything you may have been carrying for too long. 

 

We will guide you through Wim Hof inspired breathing and cold water exposure. This is scientifically shown to help heal the body in a myriad of ways including reducing stress, anxiety and feelings of depression; connecting you to your power. 

 

There will also be time for relaxation and connecting with your fellow brothers whilst enjoying the hot tub, sauna, indoor swimming pool, forest walks, fire, drumming, beautiful food and more.

DISCOVER THE MASCULINE ARCHETYPES

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WHO IS THIS FOR?

  • Men who are ready to realise who they are beyond the conditioning of society, parents, friends and self imposed limiting beliefs

  • Men who have a deep desire to approach life with an open, undefended heart

  • Men who feel stuck, stagnant and longing to live a more fulfilling life in alignment with their deepest gifts and purpose

  • Men who have had enough of seeing how immature toxic masculinity has created so much pain and confusion in the world, and are looking to shift that paradigm by healing themselves first

  • Men that want to have an adventure away from the busyness of the 9-5 life and enjoy the freedom and space of the Dorset countryside

  • Men that want to feel at peace, and at ease within themselves, leading to more authentic relationships with everyone around them

  • Men that want to learn techniques and simple practices to feel powerful, alive and in love with life

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WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE

Our weekends have been likened to a decade of therapy. This isn't just a retreat to go through the motions; it's an opportunity for profound, life changing growth.

  • A guided journey into embodying the masculine Archetypes

  • Life changing Transformational Workshops

  • Somatic shadow work & inner child healing

  • Tools to harness and embody your archetypes when you leave​

  • Meditation, breath-work & movement 

  • Cold water therapy immersion

  • We will be leaving our watches behind and diving into our hearts

  • 4 Days, 3 nights accommodation (2pm Opening Thursday afternoon. 5pm closing Sunday afternoon)

  • Delicious home cooked meals each day

  • Shared accommodation

  • A follow up group integration call

  • Extras - Wood fired sauna, hot tub, indoor swimming pool 

*Please note this is a drug and alcohol free space.

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OUR VENUE

MEET YOUR TEACHER

LEAD FACILITATOR

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FOUNDER, COACH &

LEAD FACILITATOR

ALEXANDER COTTLE

Alexander Cottle is a leading voice in modern men’s work and the founder of The Unmasked Man. Known for his embodied, heart-led approach, he brings together over a decade of experience in somatic shadow work, Eastern philosophy, counselling, yoga, and meditation. His work is rooted in helping men move from the mind into the heart - from performance into presence.

Alexander specialises in teaching the embodied side of shadow work, guiding men to meet and integrate the parts of themselves they’ve hidden, suppressed, or feared. Through his grounded, compassionate facilitation, he’s supported hundreds of men to release shame, reclaim their power, and step into mature masculinity.

He is recognised for the depth and safety he creates - spaces where men can unravel, remember, and rebuild. His work is not about surface-level change. It’s about deep, embodied transformation that stays with you for life.

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INVESTMENT

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THE UNMASKED MAN 

LEVEL 1 - BOY TO KING 

DISCOVER THE MASCULINE ARCHETYPES

A FOUR DAY JOURNEY TO RECLAIM YOUR SOVEREIGNTY

£1,550

26 FEB - 1 MARCH 2026

 

4 Days, 3 nights

*Limited to 16 Men

OPEN FOR BOOKING

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