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JOURNEY OF THE MASCULINE 

 

  • ARE YOU READY to step up and own your projections?

  • READY to separate truth from story?

  • READY to guide others? 

  • READY to connect to brotherhood globally?

  • READY to be your most authentic self?

  • READY to finally be seen?

MEN....ARE YOU READY TO BECOME A LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFE? NO LONGER A VICTIM. NO LONGER PLAYING SMALL. NO LONGER LIVING A LIFE WITHOUT PURPOSE.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." 

Marianne Williamson

On this personal 1 to 1 three month leadership training we will guide you to become the leader in your own life and of others.  To take charge and ownership of yourself. 

We will give you the opportunity to step up, to embody your power and reclaim your sovereignty. THE ENEGY OF THE KING.

THIS IS A LIFE CHANGING JOURNEY. Using Archetypal Jungian psychology enquiry we will teach you the skills to explore your own shadow, to claim it and to compassionately reparent it. We will give you the tools to start acting from a place of emotional maturity and ownership that will change how you relate in every relationship in you life. Your partner will thank you, your children will benefit from your new embodied presence and YOU will start to create great direction and purpose in your life.  

 

Our aim is to fully empower YOU with the knowledge to transform YOUR LIFE and lay a strong emotional mature foundation

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To stand up and own YOUR shadow, YOUR gifts to give the world and embody YOUR full power.

 

AWAKEN YOUR KING

This training is for men who are COMMITTED to their OWN JOURNEY of personal growth, and are ready to become leaders in their life. Men ready to expand and to hold space for others to awaken to their power and true nature also.

This journey has been designed for you to learn and practice a wide range of skills and techniques and become integrated into the Unmasked Man Globally.

 

THE LOVER

The lover is alive with life! He is compassionate, loving, nurturing and romantic. His energy for life is infectious. He feels connected to the world, nature and his purpose. The lover archetype is a man’s source of meaning and spirituality. He’s the dreamer and is highly empathetic. He’s the man who cares for his family and feels for strangers. He loves his partner, holds space as a father, listens, adores and cares. He is passionate, sensual and erotic and treats women with respect and love. The lover in his fulness is sensitive, playful and comfortable in his own body. A loving man in his divine “lover” energy is a symbol of life force itself.

 

 

Shadow Sides of the Lover/not in his fulness - The Addicted Lover & The Impotent Lover

 

Together we will start to explore all aspects of the Lover energy. Helping ourselves and others to free themselves from guilt and shame around sexuality. We will rewire our conditioning in order to experience that VULNERABILITY IS POWER.

 

 

THE WARRIOR

The warrior energy is one of the most important archetypes but he is also one of the most misunderstood. This is mainly due to the shadow side of the Warrior that has caused so much suffering throughout history. 

 

A true Warrior in his fulness has self control and discipline. He is the samurai who knows when to wield his sword, but also as importantly when to holster it. Many men do not know how to safely access their warrior energy in todays society. In his full expression he is loyal, precise, patient, controlled, disciplined and self mastered. He has strong boundaries and acts decisively. The warrior can be a destructive force. But it’s a destructive force for good, to cut through the illusions of the mind and seek the truth. He destroys only what he needs to in order for something beautiful to grow and blossom. When combined with the other archetypes, something magnificent can emerge. If the warrior and magician combines, then one can develop a strong spiritual practice.

 

Shadow Sides of the Warrior/not in his fulness - The Sadist & The Masochist.

Together we will start to explore all aspects of harnessing a healthy Warrior energy, helping men confront and deal with their anger without shame or zealous chaos and destruction.

 

THE MAGICIAN

 

The magician is both the wise man and the scientist. He is the professor, the shaman, the inventor, the doctor and the knower. With his intuition and deep awareness he understands the universe, the stars and his place in it. In his fulness he is the guiding principle for driving civilisation forward in a healthy way. As an elder his wisdom and knowledge is passed down to others, guiding and initiating boys to men and lead to gold. He has a strong bull-shit detector, sifting through the lies and the illusions of others.The magician recognizes that the reality you see is just the tip of the iceberg. That there’s a subterranean world below and he has full access to it. 

 

Shadow Sides of the Magician/not in his fulness - The Detached Manipulator & The Denying “innocent One”

Together we will start to explore all aspects of harnessing a healthy Magician, helping men discover their inner world and becoming aware of our internal shadows.

THE KING

Finally we come to the KING.

 

The Archetype of the King Energy is the source of order in the kingdom. A just King is noble, wise and asks for help. He listens, guides, supports and nourishes. From here his kingdom can prosper and flourish. The king energy accepts everyone around his table, he is loving and forgiving, he welcomes all parts of his psyche without shame or guilt. Helping him grow into maturity so to identify and befriend parts of himself that he may have condemned or cut off. He essentially becomes integrated.

 

The King is the harmonizing principle, the subjugator of chaos, the uniter of opposites.

 

Shadow Sides of the King/not in his fulness - Tyrant King and The Weakling Prince.

Together we will start to embody our KING energy. To rise up, to welcome all, to support, love, nourish, guide and harmonize.

ABOUT THE PROGRAM

PERSONAL GROWTH & TRANSFORMATION

Through this truthful and deep process you will undergo your own journey of self discovery and liberation. It is time to awaken and be HONEST and AUTHENTIC WITH YOURSELF. To become a leader it all starts with us. Taking accountability and 'walking our talk'  

Together we will look at what is holding you back from rising into your power and work through blocks that are currently preventing you from fully giving your expression to the world and living YOUR PURPOSE.

 

BROTHERHOOD

You will be initiated into an ever growing network of men around the world that have walked the same path. 

 

PRACTICE CIRCLE

An additional option of the program is to set up and run your own men's circle with friends. This circle can run alongside the program and it is a space for you to naturally explore your leadership and to step up and be seen as a man. Here you will start to push yourself out of your comfort zone, and breath into any anxiety's of holding space. and being seen as a leader. Through trial and error you can begin to teach and play with the tools we are learning each week. Experimenting with friends can give you that confidence to step up and become familiar with taking the floor. It will encourage accountability and support you in all areas of leadership in your life. Realising the benefit of having a group of men to check in with.

 

We will give you the fundamental tools to hold such a space and the confidence to embody it. Please note - This is an optional extra and is not necessary for the completion of the program. 

EXPLORING OUR SHADOW. WHAT IS IT AND HOW CAN IT BENEFIT ME?

“Your shadow is the part of your unconscious where you put all of the energies, emotions, thoughts, feelings and behaviours that for one reason or another were not acceptable when you were a child. Not acceptable, that is, either to you or to the people around you........

And so a child soon learns which parts of himself need to be suppressed for maximum love to be bestowed upon him; and the parts which are not wanted by the world or the people in it usually get shoved forcibly into the child’s unconscious, into what Robert Bly aptly termed the “Shadow Bag.”

Rod Boothroyd

Once a man can understand his shadow and how it has been playing out in his life, he can begin to create great change. Both for himself and those important relationships which surround him. Through exploring an archetypal Jungian approach using the four great masculine archetypes - King, Warrior, Lover and Magician - YOU will begin to understand how they and their opposing shadows influence YOUR LIFE currently. Through this enquiry, acceptance and reparenting of the shadow you can then begin to transform the deep sub conscious patterns that have been playing out. The introjective values that have perhaps kept you small, leaked anger, hurts yourself or others or kept you in a cycle of people pleasing and becoming the NICE GUY. This work gives you a solid foundational structure and supports you in your emotional maturity and evolution on your journey forward as a man.

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"The Unmasked Man is a coming together of men throughout the world to openly share and grow in their evolution of what it is to be a man.

It is a brotherhood of men growing in their emotional maturity. Reparenting the boy within and evolving in themselves, their leadership and their life mission. These are men that make the Heroes Journey from boyhood to manhood and king"

 

"LET US HELP YOU TO RISE AND TAP INTO YOUR INATE POWER"

Alexander Cottle

TRAINING MODULES IN DETAIL

BUILDING OUR OWN FOUNDATION

WEEKS 1 - 4

 

We will start with YOU. Looking at the foundation. What makes you tick as a man, what areas in your life are there leakages of energy and how can with bring a conscious awareness to them.

 

+ YOUR Hero's Journey. Where have you been and where you are going.

+ ''Sadhana'' - Your Morning Practice. Creating a daily structure.

+ Understanding our shadow and Gold mission.

+ Taking charge of your Addictions - Porn Masturbation/sugar/purchasing/gambling/alcohol/drugs/neediness

+ Setting our intention & life goals - Both short term and long term.

+ Why do you want to lead? What is your intention?

+ Mr Nice guy Syndrome. Are you a Nice guy? Do you use covert contracts? The important of having your own needs. 

+ Your comfort zone and how much do you live in it?

+ We will start to look at the 4 main Archetypes as a whole - King, Warrior, lover & Magician. 

+ The Father wound - ''Getting hit by the axe''

+ The Mother wound - ‘’The key lies underneath the mothers pillow” Iron John, Robert Bly.

+ Letting go, acceptance and forgiveness.

+ I will teach you both small and large exercises to navigate these topics.

DELVING DEEP INTO OUR OWN SHADOW

WEEKS 5 - 8

 

Shadow Work - An in-depth analysis of the shadow and bi-polar sides of the four archetypes.

 

+ Shadow Lover - The Addicted Lover & The Impotent Lover 

+ Shadow Warrior -  The Sadist & The Masochist.

+ Shadow Magician -  The Detached Manipulator & The Denying “innocent One”

+ Shadow King - Tyrant King and The Weakling Prince.

+ Sexuality - & Connection with your partner

+ “The Psychology of Romantic Love"

+ Pain or anger towards the feminine.

+ Each week we will explore how these are playing out in your life and learn tools and process work to highlight these areas. 

LEADING WITH AUTHORITY, FINDING YOUR VOICE & POWER

WEEKS 9 - 12

 

Weeks 9 - 12 will consist of fully coming into your power. Of finding your inner voice, channeling the most authentic energy to lead and stepping up.

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+ Your relationship to abundance and wealth consciouness.

+ Facing your FEARS!

+ Accountability, motivation and discipline. The self mastered man. 

+ Brotherhood and the importance of having a strong network of men.

+ Reparenting your inner child through compassion and acceptance.

+ Finding your truest voice

+ Breathing into the fear and stepping forward. 

+ Realising your inner power

+ Self compassion, self love and celebration.

+ Leadership with Heart

+ Graduation Ceremony & initiation.

"This is more than just your standard coaching program. It is a total life evolution. Reframing the way we currently act as men. You will be given the fundamental tools to understand your own emotional maturity"

 

Alexander Cottle

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ALEXANDER COTTLE

FOUNDER OF THE UNMASKED MAN

Alexander is a Men's Transformational Coach, NCS L3 qualified counsellor, Yoga Teacher,  Meditation Teacher and founder of the Unmasked Man - set up in 2018 to build brotherhood globally and to create a space for men's emotional healing and mental health.

 

He is deeply passionate and dedicated to guiding men to step into their power and fulfil their full potential. Leading through embodiment, Alexander has overcome many struggles on his journey, enabling him to hold space from an empathetic and relatable place. He believes that through true authenticity and vulnerability we can drop into a better relationship with ourselves and our bodies, creating a compassionate and grounded approach to self healing and growth.

 

Alexander has sat with hundreds of men all over the world helping them to unmask, to shed light on the unconscious boy within themselves and to finally discover their true power they have hidden for too long.

It is with a great pleasure and a full heart that he teaches this work each day.

LEAD FACILITATOR

WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE

  • 12 weeks personal one-to-one training calls with Alexander Cottle.

    You will have weekly live Zoom 1 on 1 tuition calls (12 calls in total)

  • Calls will be 60mins. An additional 15 minutes may be added if required. 

  • Program manuals and holding space booklets.

  • Weekly homework, questions, objectives and tasks to complete.
  • These will be set to encourage you to break through your comfort zone and push you to into the uncomfortable.

  • Reading lists of essential books to develop your studies, enquiry and process.

  • WhatsApp Support.

  • Meditation and breathing exercises.

  • Connection with a growing global network of men.

  • Support around non ejaculation, commitment to motivating and harnessing your sexual energy. 

  • Support, tools, essential knowledge and guidance in starting your own circle. This will be optional.

  • Graduation certificate as an 'Unmasked Man' initiated Leader and facilitator.

  • Accompanying videos.


 

WHO IS THIS TRAINING FOR?

  • Men that are ready to take the next step.

  • Men that ready to be leaders in their life and take ownership of it.

  • Men that want to create great change and embody their teachings.

  • Men that ready to emotionally mature.

  • Men that are ready to help others rise through initiating and embodying their life mission.

INVESTMENT 

12 week Personal Training Program

COMMITMENT

 

  • 60min 1-1 Calls will be schedule in accordance weekly to fit our diaries.

    *Your optional private circle will be held at a time of your choice.

  • Commitment to personal designated homework assignments each week. 

 

INVESTMENT

OPTION 1

PAY IN FULL

£1,940

*Save & pay in full.

 

OPTION 2

12 MONTH PAYMENT PLAN

£2,340

*12 Monthly payments of £195.

 

Upon choosing your payment option below and booking

a team member will be in contact to arrange a start date.

 

Are you ready to create great change

and rise up to become a leader in YOUR LIFE?

CHOSE YOUR PAYMENT OPTION

     

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PAY IN FULL

THE UNMASKED MAN FACILITATOR PROGRAM - Worldwide Timezone

RISE INTO YOUR KING

12 Week Personal Commitment 

12 MONTH PLAN

THE UNMASKED MAN FACILITATOR PROGRAM - Worldwide Timezone

RISE INTO YOUR KING

12 Week Personal Commitment 

£1,940(Single payment)

*Save and pay in full

£195(per month)

*12 Monthly payments of £195

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Adil Hussain

"Alexander changed my life.

I've been coached by Alexander now for almost 2 years and he's changed my life. His guidance and full presence, coupled with his knowledge and expertise has been pivotal for the development of my personal life and my career as a coach. I cannot recommend this man enough."

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Lee Fuller

"Alexander changed my life in and I don’t say that lightly. I was able to cut away the shackles of my past, own my insecurities and get crystal clear on exactly what I want out of life moving forward. I made more progress In the 12 week course than I have in many years of self development up to that point. Alexander is phenomenal at what he does and cannot recommend him and the unmasked man highly enough. The best money I have ever spent on myself.

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James Ainsworth

"One of the best things I have done in the last 5 years. Very highly recommend Alexander and this incredible course.

One of the biggest things was it helped me uncover my purpose. This is huge as I have never been so clear as I am now.

Alexander is an awesome guy and gives you all the space you need to speak out about your problems and overcome them. He accepts every part of you.

Thank you, Alexander, for everything."

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