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JOURNEY OF THE MASCULINE

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  • READY to Stand and own your projections?

  • READY to embody your power? 

  • READY to join a brotherhood globally?

  • READY to be your most authentic self?

  • READY to finally be seen in the world?

ARE YOU READY TO STEP UP?

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." 

Marianne Williamson

Through this personal one to one 3 month program

I will guide you to rise up into your power.

I will give you the opportunity to expand, learn, step up and create the life YOU want. no more hiding. No more playing small. This is for the BRAVE.

MEN that want CHANGE!

 

 I will help you explore your masculinity and understand the four great masculine archetypes,

KING. WARRIOR. MAGICIAN. LOVER. 

Together we will explore your shadow and notice patterns and conditionings in your life that no longer serve you. We will see how these cause energy leakages within your world and start to act great change to transform your life. 

 

My aim is to fully empower you with the knowledge to help men yourself rise up.

To stand up, take back your power and own your shadow.

Embodying all of yourself and expand your heart. 

 

Let us RISE TOGETHER, let us become KINGS AMONGST KINGS

 

AWAKEN YOUR KING

This training is for men who are committed to their own journey of personal growth, and are ready to empower themselves. Maybe it is time for you to lead others, maybe it is time to be seen fully in a new career.  Let us awaken YOU to your true power face the old stories that no longer serve you head on. This is your true nature.

This journey has been designed for you to learn and practice a wide range of skills and techniques, join our global brotherhood and become integrated into

the Unmasked Man Globally.

 

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THE LOVER

The lover is alive with life! He is compassionate, loving, nurturing and romantic. His energy for life is infectious. He feels connected to the world, nature and his purpose. The lover archetype is a man’s source of meaning and spirituality. He’s the dreamer and is highly empathetic. He’s the man who cares for his family and feels for strangers. He loves his partner, holds space as a father, listens, adores and cares. He is passionate, sensual and erotic and treats women with respect and love. The lover in his fulness is sensitive, playful and comfortable in his own body. A loving man in his divine “lover” energy is a symbol of life force itself.

 

 

Shadow Sides of the Lover/not in his fulness - The Addicted Lover & The Impotent Lover

 

Together we will start to explore all aspects of the Lover energy. Helping ourselves and others to free themselves from guilt and shame around sexuality. We will rewire our conditioning in order to experience that VULNERABILITY IS POWER.

 

 

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THE WARRIOR

The warrior energy is one of the most important archetypes but he is also one of the most misunderstood. This is mainly due to the shadow side of the Warrior that has caused so much suffering throughout history. 

 

A true Warrior in his fulness has self control and discipline. He is the samurai who knows when to wield his sword, but also as importantly when to holster it. Many men do not know how to safely access their warrior energy in todays society. In his full expression he is loyal, precise, patient, controlled, disciplined and self mastered. He has strong boundaries and acts decisively. The warrior can be a destructive force. But it’s a destructive force for good, to cut through the illusions of the mind and seek the truth. He destroys only what he needs to in order for something beautiful to grow and blossom. When combined with the other archetypes, something magnificent can emerge. If the warrior and magician combines, then one can develop a strong spiritual practice.

 

Shadow Sides of the Warrior/not in his fulness - The Sadist & The Masochist.

Together we will start to explore all aspects of harnessing a healthy Warrior energy, helping men confront and deal with their anger without shame or zealous chaos and destruction.

 

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THE MAGICIAN

 

The magician is both the wise man and the scientist. He is the professor, the shaman, the inventor, the doctor and the knower. With his intuition and deep awareness he understands the universe, the stars and his place in it. In his fulness he is the guiding principle for driving civilisation forward in a healthy way. As an elder his wisdom and knowledge is passed down to others, guiding and initiating boys to men and lead to gold. He has a strong bull-shit detector, sifting through the lies and the illusions of others.The magician recognizes that the reality you see is just the tip of the iceberg. That there’s a subterranean world below and he has full access to it. 

 

Shadow Sides of the Magician/not in his fulness - The Detached Manipulator & The Denying “innocent One”

Together we will start to explore all aspects of harnessing a healthy Magician, helping men discover their inner world and becoming aware of our internal shadows.

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THE KING

Finally we come to the KING.

 

The Archetype of the King Energy is the source of order in the kingdom. A just King is noble, wise and asks for help. He listens, guides, supports and nourishes. From here his kingdom can prosper and flourish. The king energy accepts everyone around his table, he is loving and forgiving, he welcomes all parts of his psyche without shame or guilt. Helping him grow into maturity so to identify and befriend parts of himself that he may have condemned or cut off. He essentially becomes integrated.

 

The King is the harmonizing principle, the subjugator of chaos, the uniter of opposites.

 

Shadow Sides of the King/not in his fulness - Tyrant King and The Weakling Prince.

Together we will start to embody our KING energy. To rise up, to welcome all, to support, love, nourish, guide and harmonize.

ABOUT THE TRAINING

PERSONAL GROWTH & TRANSFORMATION

Through this truthful and deep process you will undergo your own journey of self discovery and liberation. It is time to awaken and be honest and authentic with yourself. To lead are most authentic and empowering life it all starts with us. Taking accountability and 'walking are talk'

Together we will look at what is holding you back from rising into your power and work through blocks that are currently preventing you from fully giving your expression to the world.

 

BROTHERHOOD

You will be initiated into the growing network of men around the world. You will be welcomed into the Unmasked Man weekly circle and meet other men to help support yourself and keep you accountable.

 

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"The Unmasked Man Project is a coming together of men throughout the world to openly share and grow in their evolution of what it is to be a man. It is a union, a bond and a brotherhood for men. To make the emotional mature journey from

boyhood to KING"

 

"LET ME HELP YOU TO RISE INTO

YOUR POWER"

Alexander Cottle

PROGRAM MODULES IN DETAIL

BUILDING OUR OWN FOUNDATION

WEEKS 1 - 4

 

We will start with YOU. Looking at the foundation. What makes you tick as a man, what areas in your life are there leakages of energy and how can with bring a conscious awareness to them.

 

+ ''Sadhana'' - Morning Practice & ‘’Tapas”” which means discipline in Sanskrit.

+ Taking charge of your Addictions - Porn Masturbation/sugar/purchasing/gambling/alcohol/drugs/neediness

+ The Hero's Journey - Setting our intention & life goals - both short term and long term.

+ Why do I want change? What is your intention?

+ Long term vision, what do I want in my life?

+ Your comfort zone and how much do you live in it?

+ We will start with an introduction to look at the 4 main Archetypes as a whole - King, Warrior, magician  lover. 

+ The Father wound - ''Getting hit by the axe''

+ The Mother wound - ‘’The key lies underneath the mothers pillow” Iron John, Robert Bly.

+ Letting go, acceptance and forgiveness.

+ I will teach you both small and large exercises to understand these topics.

DELVING DEEP INTO OUR OWN SHADOW

WEEKS 5 - 8

 

Shadow Work - An in-depth analysis of the shadow and bi-polar sides of the Four Great Archetypes.

 

+ Shadow Lover - The Addicted Lover & The Impotent Lover 

+ Shadow Warrior -  The Sadist & The Masochist.

+ Shadow Magician -  The Detached Manipulator & The Denying “Innocent One”

+ Shadow King - Tyrant King and The Weakling Prince.

+ Sexuality - & Connection with your partner

+ “The Psychology of Romantic Love"

+ Pain or anger towards the feminine.

+ Each week we will explore how these are playing out in your life and learn tools and process work to highlight these are.

STEPPING INTO YOUR SOVEREIGNTY, FINDING YOUR VOICE & POWER

WEEKS 9 - 12

Weeks 9 - 12 will consist of fully coming into your power. Of finding your inner voice, channeling the most authentic energy to stepping up into YOUR POWER. We will also explore the importance having community of brothers doing 'the work' in your life.

+ THE TIME IS NOW - acting immediately with Warrior energy. 

+ Finding your voice and being heard.

+ Boundaries and saying 'NO'

+ Your needs are important.

+ You are the creator of your relationships.

+ Breathing into your darkest and deepest fears and stepping forward fearlessly. 

+ Brotherhood and the importance of having a strong network of men to stay accountable.

+ Abundance and learning to receive. 

+ Wealth consciousness - what is holding you back?

+ Stepping into your inner power

+ Self compassion, self love and celebration.

+ New empowered Leadership with Heart

+ Graduation & initiation.

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ALEXANDER COTTLE

Alexander is Mens Facilitator & Meditation teacher, and founder of the

‘Unmasked Man’ setup to encourage sharing and help men journey to a deeper understanding of themselves.

 

He is deeply passionate and dedicated to guiding men to step into their power and fulfil their potential. Leading through embodiment, Alexander has overcome many struggles on his journey, enabling him to hold space from an empathetic and relatable place. He believes that through true authenticity and vulnerability we can drop into a better relationship with ourselves and our bodies, creating a compassionate and grounded approach to self healing and growth.

 

Alexander has sat with 100's of men all over the world helping them to unmask, to shed light on the unconscious boy within themselves and to finally discover their true power they have hidden for too long.

FOUNDER & LEAD FACILITATOR

"This is more than just a training program. It is a total life evolution. Reframing the way we currently act as men"

 

"LET ME SUPPORT YOU TO RISE

INTO YOUR POWER"

Alexander Cottle

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WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE

  • 12 weeks personal one-to-one training with our lead facilitator Alexander Cottle.

  • You will have weekly live Zoom 1 on 1 tuition calls (12 calls in total)

  • Calls will be 60mins

  • Connection with a growing global network of men.

  • FREE entry into the Unmasked Man weekly Group call (during the program) every Thursday evening 7-9pm GMT online.

  • Supporting one another in a larger container and meeting a community of men stepping up and doing 'the work'.

  • Group calls are optional each week. and are 2 hours long.

  • Entry into the Unmasked Man Facebook group.

  • Support to create and run your own men's circle if you want to share this important work.

  • Support, tools, essential knowledge and guidance in building the life YOU want.

  • Weekly WhatsApp Support.

  • Weekly homework, questions and tasks.

  • Weekly King’s stretch - Challenges to push yourself further out your comfort zone.

  • Support around non ejaculation, commitment to motivating and harnessing your sexual energy. 

  • Reading lists of essential books to develop your practice.

  • Free Meditation exercises.

  • Accompanying Training Manuals and PDFs.

  • Accompanying videos.


 

WHO IS THIS PROGRAM FOR?

  • Men that are ready to take the next step.

  • Men that want to create great change in their life and embody their teachings.

  • Men that ready to leave the superficial relating behind and become a leader of their life.

  • Men that are ready to discover their KING and live their PURPOSE!

INVESTMENT & DATE

3 month Personal Training Programme with Alexander Cottle

We are now taking entry for December 2021 and January 2022.  

 

* Please note waiting lists are sometimes present.

DATES

  • The training will commence on a mutually agreed date.

  • Calls will be schedule in accordance weekly to fit our diaries.

  • Optional drop in Group calls will occur online each Thursday 7-9pm GMT 

INVESTMENT

  • Price: CURRENT PROMOTIONAL PRICE £2,350  

  • (Usual Price £2,950) 

*MONTHLY PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE

 

I appreciate and understand that price can be a barrier to some people participating. Payment plans are available. Please specify if you are applying for a low income place and outline your circumstances in the form on the next page.

HOW TO APPLY

To apply for this program please fill out the  form on the next page. Click 'APPLY NOW" below. 

Please answer all the questions. Once you have  been accepted you will be able to pay for your place or  alternatively speak with Alexander to set up your payment plan.

Are you ready to create great change in your life and rise up to own your POWER?

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Mateusz Górecki

"For me, the workshops & trainings with Alexander were incredible. A truly deepening experience, stretching my understanding of masculinity and transforming my life.

 Authenticity and vulnerability is definitely his domain"

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James Marriott 

"Alexander’s commitment to personal development and for sharing his wisdom, love, time and experience with other men is truly commendable. He resonates passion for this work. You’d do well to sit with this man and learn with him"

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Daniel Howard 

"Alexander does a brilliant job of creating a safe space and guiding the space. The result? A huge release, clarity on my path forward, new friendships made and true transformation. Thank You Alexander for this incredible journey"

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'THE UNMASKED MAN JOURNEY'